siddha

Friday, October 08, 2004

Have Faith In Destiny

well well !!!

what to write ? not everyone believes in destiny.many dont know what is destiny.all think that horoscope can decide what destiny is.but they dont understand that no one and nothing can decide destiny.destiny is something that prevails on it own.one can try to see or learn what destiny is and the closest u can go is by reading the horoscope.but horoscope does not decide destiny.it tells u the closest to what ur destiny might be.
there are many people who believe that they can give shape to their life.if that would have been the case then everyone would get what they want and then no one would ever say that they are unhappy.but everyone says that in one respect or the other they are not happy.everyone would have had all the things they wanted.like just say imagine...u wanted to be a comp engg and u tried ur level best to get thru to the admissions.but not all can.infact many times those who dont deserve to get thru do get thru and the ones who have acctually worked hard dont.
Another thing or aspect where we can see the same thing is in case of job.one wants to get an awsome job.but do all get the job??? Analyse urself who all get the job.are all of them really worth it????.
These are just a few questions which come to our mind.we always try to avoid these questions by saying to ourselves that we can see to it later ( if it was something bad) and i got it ...now thats not my fault ( if its something good).but deep inside we know that we are running away form these questions coz sometimes we know answers to these questions and we dont want to accept them easily.
One major and common prob is that none of us want to think or analyse something which doesnt pay us in some way.we always put it in the frame ( what will i get by thinking all this ) and then we leave it.one thing which we dont understand is the moral value which increase or develop in us bcoz of all this analysis.I m very sure that if a person who doesnt like to think all these things forces himself once or twice to think on these lines he will understand what he /she gains in the process.what they gain in this is all that makes the difference in their lives.sooner or later this is understood and then devoting time for this is not difficult for them at all as they can do it anytime and they dont have to take out special time for it.This marks the beginning of their calm and peaceful life which is often taken to be withdrawn.( its not withdrawn but its very calm and peaceful).
The only drawback of the entire process is that the indivisual progresses and the people around him remain as they are and then the compatibility problem starts. This leaves all the people around that indivisual unhappy and consequently that indivisual also.so in all this the indivisual should see to it that he/she tries to make the people around him also calm.but this is the most difficult part as one can change himself by a lot of efforts but to change someone else is very difficult even with lot of efforts as long as that other indivisual doesnt himself want to admit that change ( bring that change in himself)

People should try to analyse what and how each and everything happens.but instead they keep on nagging about the things that they get and they dont.