Attachments and Desires.
Attachment- something that we develop even before we come to this world and something that we are not ready to leave when we are parting from this world. What I m trying to do is just to find out whether whatever we do for this attachment is it worth the effort and pain that we take?
Same is true with desires though it starts a latter age in life. Every small kid who gets one toffy either wants more or different one. How many kids say that they are happiest when they get the toffy that is given to them. Rarely anyone. Understandable as they haven’t developed the power to think and go beyond toffy as yet. But y should this be true in case of adults and if it is are they ready to accept that they cant think and go beyond it. No!!! J and then there are excuses like Ambitions, Ego and so many other things.
Is it really worth the effort? Whatever we have achieved here we have to leave here. So what is it that we want? Many people to grieve about our death when we die? Or lots of money to die in ishstyle? Or people whoever may be there to be there at your bedside and just tell u that u were simply gr8 in what u did to them and others? Or may there be no people but you should die a peaceful death which means you are happy to die now that u have all that u have till now?
It depends on the selection from out of these on which depends the value of the effort that we have taken in the whole life.
Choice 1 – May give u relief when u die that there were so many people who were crying at ur death but immed thought that comes to ur mind is that whether they were really sad. (sure guarantee from my side J ). So in this case u are anyways not happy when u die coz u want to live and find this out.
Choice 2 – Lots of money and beautiful coffin or lovely car to carry your body to the grave (place cant be bought with all the money that u have J). And when you are in the coffin u wonder now who is the next person who will use all the money that u have or you ask someone to put in all the money in ur coffin ( and then u want to live and check whether that is done J) .So in anycase u are not happy when u die and want to live further
Choice 3 – You may not have all the money and many people but u will have people to tell u that the life u lived was simply the best anyone could want (with whatever u had and have) and so u are satisfied that whatever little u did was fruitful atleast for the people who are with u at ur bedside. This may be the case when its worth what all u did and u are now happy (may not want to die but don’t have any specific reason to live either)
Choice 4 – If u are convinced that u have lived the best life there is no chance that u want to live more and the amount of satisfaction that u have at this time is what I believe really worth the life’s effort.
Same is true with desires though it starts a latter age in life. Every small kid who gets one toffy either wants more or different one. How many kids say that they are happiest when they get the toffy that is given to them. Rarely anyone. Understandable as they haven’t developed the power to think and go beyond toffy as yet. But y should this be true in case of adults and if it is are they ready to accept that they cant think and go beyond it. No!!! J and then there are excuses like Ambitions, Ego and so many other things.
Is it really worth the effort? Whatever we have achieved here we have to leave here. So what is it that we want? Many people to grieve about our death when we die? Or lots of money to die in ishstyle? Or people whoever may be there to be there at your bedside and just tell u that u were simply gr8 in what u did to them and others? Or may there be no people but you should die a peaceful death which means you are happy to die now that u have all that u have till now?
It depends on the selection from out of these on which depends the value of the effort that we have taken in the whole life.
Choice 1 – May give u relief when u die that there were so many people who were crying at ur death but immed thought that comes to ur mind is that whether they were really sad. (sure guarantee from my side J ). So in this case u are anyways not happy when u die coz u want to live and find this out.
Choice 2 – Lots of money and beautiful coffin or lovely car to carry your body to the grave (place cant be bought with all the money that u have J). And when you are in the coffin u wonder now who is the next person who will use all the money that u have or you ask someone to put in all the money in ur coffin ( and then u want to live and check whether that is done J) .So in anycase u are not happy when u die and want to live further
Choice 3 – You may not have all the money and many people but u will have people to tell u that the life u lived was simply the best anyone could want (with whatever u had and have) and so u are satisfied that whatever little u did was fruitful atleast for the people who are with u at ur bedside. This may be the case when its worth what all u did and u are now happy (may not want to die but don’t have any specific reason to live either)
Choice 4 – If u are convinced that u have lived the best life there is no chance that u want to live more and the amount of satisfaction that u have at this time is what I believe really worth the life’s effort.
posted by siddha @ 2:16 AM
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